baht habit wrote:>>>Why do you always feel the need to put other forum members down?
Good question. Since you seemed to have only directed your question at my response then I assume you have no problem with the sarcasm I initially received above toward my observation regarding the lyrics of Sleepwalkers.
In my response I was only attempting to make a point. There is some real obsessing that goes on around this lovely site and, though I have concerned myself in no way in Mr Sylvian's personal matters, I can gather from his reclusive reputation and usual demeanor that if he were ever to peruse these parts, he just may shudder at the attention paid to certain aspects of his life. And I feel that is what may be what is expressed in certain lines of Sleepwalkers. Attention to more serious subjects perhaps may be a little more constructive.
I haven't even heard "Sleepwalkers" so can't comment on what may or may not have been alluded to in the lyrics. I've always thought, though, that DS is being a bit unrealistic in expecting fans to take no interest whatsoever in his personal life when most of his lyrics are so autobiographical and confessional. He shares his most intimate secrets with us and then implies we're stalker fangirls/fanboys if we express any interest in who he is as a person! Can anyone honestly say (even you, bahthabit) that they didn't start to wonder about David and Ingrid's marriage when they first heard
Blemish? I just don't think it's possible to be moved by the music and not think about David the person
at all.
Having said that, there are limits and some fans do cross them big time. (e.g.another fansite apparently published his 13-year-old daughter's MySpace username last year, which I thought was just totally sick and very frightening).
But you don't have to be totally poe-faced to be seriously interested in the music - it is possible to joke about the white shoes and engage deeply with the music
as well. I think people possibly get upset and defensive when they feel that other posters are questioning their taste, depth and ultimately intelligence because they sometimes show a lighter side, too. We're a broad church here and I like that.