anortherncod wrote:
In my own personal experience mixed-race people are often seen to be more acceptable because it's felt they have more 'in common' with the indigenous white population, to the extent that - in my case - I've had people making racist remarks about black people to me and I have to underline what my own ethnic background is, whereupon they say things like, "Oh, I didn't mean you". (Revenge is sweet because then I get to watch them squirm!)
I apologise for my late arrival to this thread but oh my I am mixed race and have had exactly the same thing happen to me. I mean it's as if people have accepted me but then that crushing feeling that perhaps they haven't really...
Gah
I also have felt the same thing with regards to the supposed acceptance of black people in society. I mean all this thing about championing black beauty when in reality they mean Beyonce, who has perfectly straight blonde hair and really light skin....it's easy to accept when you remove the difference
I mean the amount of white people in my life who naturally assumed that I was gonna get my hair straightened, as if I should naturally want to look more like them.
Assimilation seems to be what is craved.
I don't quite get why society pats itself on the back quite as much as it does for finding Beyonce and Halle Berry attractive?
ALSO TO RETURN TO EUROVISION
I have never really liked it and even less since I found out that this song by Plastic Betrand didn't win (it came nearly last in fact) the year it was entered.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZLmSC7UQ19s
I firmly believe that it should have won for the performance alone which is... LOL technology
It's so, so funny. Although I think maybe that might be because I have some dangerous fixation on Plastic Betrand in reality....??