My question is, do the places where you get your ears pierced usually have a selection laid out? Or do they give you a basic one, and then you go buy the ones that you want? And if so where might I find a pair that aren't girly looking? I am a guy, and completely oblivious to these things.
When my hair gets longer I am thinking about going for the Sylvian esque doo, as well. The short on the sides but, long in the back thing but, totally NOT a mullet. I wouldn't know how to go about this either without totally f***ing it up though...
